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Sent home from high school for wearing red, white, and blue on Cinco de Mayo?! What? It's true. Five boys from Morgan Hill High School in California were told that they could wear clothing depicting the American flag on any other day but Cinco de Mayo, because it's disrespectful and insensitive to Mexican-Americans. Administrators instructed them to turn their American-flag t-shirts inside out and remove other red, white, and blue accessories or face suspension. The boys opted to leave school for the day instead.
I read the report and watched the news clip repeatedly, trying to wrap my mind around the incident. Is it not possible to be a proud citizen of the United States of America and still be respectful of the Mexican holiday of Cinco de Mayo?
Are Mexican schoolchildren chastised for wearing green, white, and red or clothing depicting their national flag on the Fourth of July? The very idea sounds ridiculous.
Where else but in the United States of America would the expression of national pride be seen as an insult to other nationalities? Never mind that one of the reprimanded boys is an American of Hispanic descent. Was he disrespecting his own heritage by wearing red, white, and blue on a Mexican holiday? The idea is ludicrous.
It has become unpopular for citizens of the U.S.A. to express pride in their country. It's okay for Mexicans, Canadians, Pakistanis, Iraqis and citizens of every other country but not citizens of the U.S.A. I wouldn't be surprised if it became politically correct for the American flag to be made smaller and flown lower than other flags on U.S. Government property. You know, as a sign of respect for legal and illegal immigrants in our country.
I fear for our country. I grew up in the Reagan era where communism was the biggest threat to our nation. But, today, it seems that the biggest threat to our nation comes from within. As we sit down to tea with terrorist and invite them to discuss their feelings, as we apologize for our standing as a super-power, and punish our children for expressing national pride, it seems obvious to me that the biggest threat to America is America herself.
Somewhere along the way, America lost her *"swagger" and I don't see that as a good thing, but then I never saw the U.S.A. as being a world-bully. I have always seen our nation as one that defends those who cannot defend themselves that gives wherever there is a need. Is the United States a perfect nation? Of course not, but it's a nation with a great-big, beautiful heart.
On a personal note, one of our children was abducted while we were living overseas and working for a non-profit organization. It might not have happened had we been given proper protection. Every other expatriate that we knew there lived behind high chain link fences, fronted with metal panels, and topped by razor wire, but because we were American citizens that level of protection would be seen as arrogance, as us setting ourselves above the nationals. Never mind that Australians, New Zealanders, Germans, Canadians, etc. all lived that way for their own safety. It was okay for them but not for U.S. citizens. And so the organization we worked for knowingly and willingly left us vulnerable.
Was our "humility" respected? It was not. Our child was taken from us in the middle of the night while we slept. We were easy targets with our great big American hearts. The local police later told us that in their country people who leave themselves vulnerable to attack are seen as stupid and therefore fair game. I'll never forget the police officers unapologetic shrug.
Eventually, the non-profit organization we worked for reluctantly put proper security measures in place.
It was the first time I'd seen Americans making themselves vulnerable as a means of apologizing for, what, our wealth and super-power status? Is that it? But what about the fact that we were there, living in a dark and dangerous place because we wanted to help?!
I see sharp parallels here. I see our nation adopting the same attitude as the non-profit we worked for and likewise making her citizens vulnerable. In fact, so many Americans have already embraced the idea like lambs led to slaughter, just as we embraced the idea back in a country far, far away, and nearly lost a child.
I'm writing about it from this angle because it's personal to me, because I see this newly "humble" America making herself increasingly vulnerable as she seeks to honor others above herself. It sounds very noble, doesn't it? Well, I don't see a whole lot of appreciation coming from outside our borders. I don't see a positive trend in world opinion. I see other nations showing their teeth while America willingly muzzles herself.
We shouldn't apologize for national pride on Cinco de Mayo or any other day nor should we teach our children to do so. My child was hurt in part because the organization we worked for felt a need to apologize for its national affiliation.
©Just Kate, May 2010
Urban Dictionary: *Swagger is the confidence exuded as a reflection of ones dress, game, attitude, and how one handles a situation.
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I don't know why I'm so shocked when I've seen the trend but, wow. I'm glad the parents appear to be supportive of their children and unapologetic about their choice to wear red, white, and blue on the fifth of May.
It's very cool to see you here. =D This is a different write for me, and I truly appreciate you taking a moment to give me some feedback. Thank you!
I'd like to know what this principal plans to do on Flag Day if the school's hispanic students show up wearing their national colors.
Good article Katy - ridiculous.
This makes me sick to my stomach.
Red, White and Blue are not "gang colors" nor are they used to disrespect anyone. They are; White- representing purity and innocence, Red- for valor and hardiness, Blue- for vigilance, perseverance, and justice. Or Red- the blood shed to gain and preserve our freedoms, White- our honor, Blue- our solidarity and unity as a people.
When we allow someone to tell us if and when we can show pride in our nation WE are disrespecting every person who ever fought for or loved this place we call home.
I am PROUD of those boys for leaving school! PROUD that they kept their "swagger!"
If one does not respect and take pride their own house, what happens? It begins to fall apart, little by little until nothing remains.
But if one takes pride in and repects the same house, what happens? It prospers and remains strong.
Is our homeland not the same?
I used to feel embarrassed when I stood and placed my hand over my heart at the passing of the American flag in a parade or at the beginning of a sporting event. The looks I got made feel like a weirdo but, I grew out of caving to peer pressure and now I stand with pride and love for my country. When will our goverment realize the same thing?
Thank you for writing this Kate. Thank you for being an American I CAN be proud of. =)
(I can't seem to log in. grr.. It's CHiCKEE. ♥)
I like your sense of the ridiculous. Point well made!
Chickee, I am proud of those boys too. I've received a few e-mails about this blog, suggesting that the boys were intentionally flying American colors in the face of Cinco de Mayo, like members of opposing sports teams wearing the colors that represent their team. Is that a problem?
And why are people living in America when they don't seem to LIKE America? If it's impossible for some people to be proudly American while still honoring their Mexican heritage, it would make sense to me that they're living in the wrong country!
It's funny, since I was a little girl I've always felt very emotional whenever I've heard our National Anthem. More often than not, tears well up in my eyes when I put my hand over my heart or even see a flag flying. I am unashamedly an American patriot.
I find the school administration's actions especially confusing because many Mexicans view Cinco de Mayo as an American borne holiday. Many even claim it was created by American beer companies. I've lived here, very close to the Mexican border my entire life, and let me tell you, the biggest celebrations for Cinco de Mayo are in the Mexican restaurants.
Very we written as always. Sorry I'm too lazy to take the time to login to my blogspot in order to post this. Promise to get better about that;) Having just recently completed the semester in World Civilization, I can so appreciate the validity of your points here. And I am in total agreement, I hate it too, that America will be the cause of its own demise. Our big heart and failure to control immigration is beyond comprehensible. As we finished up the semester, the professor directed us to a Revolution website which gives statistics of what is to come in the next 40 to 50 years. It was staggering. Immigration was among the top concerns. I am dropping it here incase you'd like to take a look.
http://administration.sru.edu/president/planning/7revolutions.pdf
Smiles...The Peacegirl ;)
Hubby and I did an informal poll and asked a few dozen Mexican-Americans to tell us about Cinco de Mayo. Not one of the people we spoke to had a clue about the holiday's origins, but all were enthusiastic about music and beer and celebrating Mexico. It doesn't appear to be a very meaningful "holiday." Contrary to what many Americans and Mexicans believe, the fifth of May is NOT Mexico's independence day. It seems more or less to be a "shout out" day to Mexico. Cool. Why on earth are we treating it as if it's sacred?!!
I recently confessed to a friend that I occasionally drink a margarita on the fourth of July. Oddly enough, no American has ever taken offense or expressed that they felt I was taking anything away from the celebration of our Independence Day.
Our small community throws a huge fourth of July party every year and we've always taken part and enjoyed it, at least up until a few years ago when they began dropping American rock 'n roll classics and folk music for Mexican ballads and Mariachi music. It's never made the papers and we've never made a fuss about it. We just don't go anymore because we no longer enjoy it.
Masochistic America, that's certainly how it seems. We're begging to be hit and it makes me sad.
I am an unapologetic patriot. People can take offense if they wish. Our lives speak the truth of us, we are Americans who have sacrificed to live and work overseas, with non-profit organizations as world citizens for the benefit of our world community. I'm not sure why folks seem to have decided that American patriotism is wrong. Part of the reason why I'm so proud to be American is because of the way Americans reach out to the world, sending more money and aid than any other nation in the world whenever there is a need. We love our neighbors and fellow world citizens. I'm all kinds of proud of that.
Hey, Peacegirl, I'm just glad to see you here. I don't care if you actually login!!
I am greatly interested in following your link and will do so posthaste! Thanks for leaving it, my friend. ♥
I have missed you. I am so glad I logged in to Facebook today. I have to figure out how to keep up with your blogging.
I totally agree with you. It is a simple concept to me, if you are in this country, and are not proud of this country, and you are originally from another country, why are you still here?
None of these people are going to accomplish really anything. I can't even figure what they think they are going to, other than a couple of options.
Like hoping to change America into a version of their original nationality? Or divide the states up and 50 countries get to adopt one to be their own colony in our land?
WTH? Not gonna happen. We are AMERICANS. The phrase we all use is (blank) American.... meaning like... Mexican American or Italian American or whatever. So in the use of this phrase we are all acknowledging that the object is American and the other word is an adjective of the noun. So they are all AMERICANS.
It is hard to win over most reasonable people with an argument based in denial of reality.
I stand with you completely with your despair and frustration with people thinking this way. I think there will be a backlash politically coming from the silent majority.
Politicians that placate for this apologize for America type of presentation of who we are, are going to have to deal with being voted out or put in a very vulnerable election. A wake up call, so to speak.
I think what has happened is there has been and under swell in America of this kind of acknowledgment and guilt over hate speak against our government. A kind of... I didn't have anything to do with it, and it disgusts me kind of judgement. Well, I figure, for the longest time, this was frowned upon in social circles and never got legs.
Then the hippie generation came along. While their idealism was refreshing and a good boost to America to take it out of the shadows of cynicism. The most extreme of these views are now being put under the microscope of politics and social debate.
Being scrutinized aspects of this view are going to be fail under the weight of scrutiny.
Or at least I damn well hope so.
Loved the blog Katy.... *smooches*
I see from the news that it's like a shit storm has hit that school. You know what though?
I can't wait for May 5, 2011. Betcha the TV cameras will be at the school. If I were a reporter, it's where I'd want to be.
Your blog is right-on Kate that we as a nation are making ourselves vulnerable. It saddens me very much to see where we are headed. And, apparently we have been doing this for a very long time since I see this kind of thing was even happening when your daughter was a little girl. Just insane!
Hugs to you and so happy to read your blogs. Love, Annette B.
No actually, I think your opinion represents a majority of Americans who stand right of center whereas my completely opposite point of view reflects the unpopular left minority. I won't get into that here--I'd probably be called "Un-American" which is laughable because part of the philosophy of a free country is everyone can hold their own beliefs.
You said, "Politicians that... apologize for America.. are going to have to deal with being voted out... A wake up call, so to speak."
I absolutely agree. I think that the current administration has overplayed their hand and is rapidly losing the support of the people. The political trend of incessantly apologizing for our patriotism, our world standing, et. al. will be brought to an end by the people in coming elections. If it's not, I fear for the country we may become.
As you know, my youngest child is mulatto. She gets pissed when people confuse her race with her nationality. She is not an African-American. She is 100% American. Her racial heritage is mixed. I'm glad she gets that and isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes even in the predominately and powerfully liberal area in which we live.
I hope you will visit more often, my friend. I miss seeing you! =D
Freedom of speech has always been sacred in America and yet the recent political environment in our country has been one that seeks to silence and misrepresent the voice of conservatives. It has been beyond troubling. When the President of the United States sought to "banish" Fox News, saying it is not a legitimate news agency but rather a voice of the conservative party, the overwhelmingly liberal mainstream media: ABC, NBC, and CBS stepped up and protested, saying that Fox is, indeed, a legitimate news source and should not be "banished."
It's been interesting to see that ALL media outlets, even the mainstream media seem to be appalled by the Cinco de Mayo incident. It gives me renewed hope for our country, knowing that folks are up-in-arms about this violation of freedom of speech and expression.
I smiled hugely when I saw that you had commented, Drew! It's great to see you!
You said, "Politicians that... apologize for America.. are going to have to deal with being voted out... A wake up call, so to speak."
I absolutely agree. I think that the current administration has overplayed their hand and is rapidly losing the support of the people. The political trend of incessantly apologizing for our patriotism, our world standing, et. al. will be brought to an end by the people in coming elections. If it's not, I fear for the country we may become.
As you know, my youngest child is mulatto. She gets pissed when people confuse her race with her nationality. She is not an African-American. She is 100% American. Her racial heritage is mixed. I'm glad she gets that and isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes even in the predominately and powerfully liberal area in which we live.
I hope you will visit more often, my friend. I miss seeing you! =D
Hi, Annette! :) Yes, we first experienced the phenomenon of the apologetic American about thirteen years ago, overseas, and it nearly cost our daughter her life. The non-profit was hedging itself against the presumption that people would *assume* that our intentions in taking the same safety measures as every other expatriate living there would be seen as arrogance, simply because of our nationality and despite the fact that we were working for a pittance for a non-profit and living very basically. In the end, the nationals saw our "apology" as weakness. That's not to say that ALL did, but we were told by the police officer that it is the general mindset of the population. I believe the lesson we learned is very applicable in our current political climate where we try to psychoanalyze why terrorists terrorize! :(
I've been running hard the last few days because we finally have some sunshine and there's lots to do outside, so I'll leave it at that. As always, I love seeing you here and always appreciate your input and insight. Love you, Annette!
Eccentricity, I'm always happy to see you here, my friend. Thank you for taking the time to read and comment. :)
I am always very skeptical of the media and am happy to hear that you are as well. It's why I make sure that I get my news from a variety of news sources and not just the mainstream media which is unashamedly liberally biased. That being said, I do think that the majority of Americans are conservative. I live in a liberal mecca so it's hard to remember sometimes that the attitude here is not representative of the entire nation. I can't tell you how many times I've been called a Christian, right-wing wacko. LOL It's really not that funny but what else can I do but laugh? I'm as anti-religion as a person can be and I'm a registered Independent, but, oh well. More often than not, people only see what they want to see.
Anyway, our experiences are obviously very different. You feel ostracized for being liberal and I feel grossly misjudged for being a political centrist. I tend to be more socially liberal and fiscally conservative. Regardless, this isn't about our personal politics. I'm writing about what I perceive to be a dangerous trend, and how this trend tragically impacted our family.
You said, "...the philosophy of a free country is everyone can hold their own beliefs."
ABSO-FLIPPIN-LUTELY! YES! And this is why I would never chastise you for sharing your point of view regardless of whether or not I agree with you, much less call you anti-American! Hopefully, you know me better than that. I vehemently defend your right to speak your mind and I just as vehemently defend the right of those boys to wear red, white, and blue on the fifth of May. I don't care if it was a fashion choice or a political statement. There's no evidence of bullying. I'm sure if it happened, the media will quickly uncover it as this is a big story and everyone but the family dogs are being interviewed. The story and video clip I linked to have sound bytes and quotes from both sides of the issue, which is something I was happy to see.
As always, it's great to see you and hear your point of view!
Aren't we all people, not countries? And how involved are we in running the country, contributing to it? If we are involved, fair enough. But what if we were born somewhere else - who would we be then? I don't know, too nationalistic tendencies give me the shivers. Take away from any culture what's good for it and apply it, but don't think you are only that culture. You are, especially, not what happened in that country before you were born. If you thought you were your country's history it would be sad for the Germans. Not to mention the Aussies.
I am an immigrant, so I suppose I am "the problem" of America (as referred to by someone else). In Sweden there are "too many" immigrants and it's a "problem." I don't think the immigrants are a problem, I think the way the country that let them in deals with having immigrants is the problem. Isn't it everyone's right to go to the country they see most fit for them, if they have the ability to survive within that country and does not break any laws? Is it not our duty as human beings to welcome those that do their best to create a better life for themselves? If they don't, well then, kick them out.
I am not American, so I look upon America differently I suppose - it was my dream to do the American dream in the country that was once built by immigrants. America has painted a pretty picture that lures just about anyone who has seen a movie to come here - there is massive propaganda. Yet, I have also heard what Americans did in Vietnam. A seventeen year old European told his driving instructor here in LA that "The one thing Bush succeeded with was to unite the world against America." I don't know how many jokes about the Bush administration there were in Europe. But what is America? America is Bush, but America is also apple pies and maple syrup. I think America is good and bad. Seeing the welfare system in Sweden and the one here, I think some people are treated like shit over here. Seeing how people are punished for earning a lot of money in Sweden, I think some people are treated extremely well over here.
I don't think I really know what a nationality is. Common values? But are they really all that common? I guess we all have some stuff in common though, if we were raised in one place and that can be nice. You feel like you belong.
I think you should protect what's good in a country, but I also think you should shop around to see what the rest of the world has to offer. If one had a chance to live in every country of the world, I am sure one would come up with "the best of" and create a super nation ;)
I went off on one. And I have absolutely no conclusion. Maybe, celebrate the good, but also be aware of the not so good? Celebrate the good in your home country, but don't look down on someone because they come from somewhere that may not be all that nice. They are humans too. Made me think =)
wow is all I gotta say...infrickenccredible!
I don't know why I'm so shocked when I've seen the trend but, wow. I'm glad the parents appear to be supportive of their children and unapologetic about their choice to wear red, white, and blue on the fifth of May.
Kate, I agree an think you need to keep posting your writes. You have a valuable world view most do not have because you traveled it an lived it. Your not off base in the least.
@Tindii
It's very cool to see you here. =D This is a different write for me, and I truly appreciate you taking a moment to give me some feedback. Thank you!
Next thing you know students won't be able to choose a hot dog instead of a taco in the cafeteria on May 5.
I'd like to know what this principal plans to do on Flag Day if the school's hispanic students show up wearing their national colors.
Good article Katy - ridiculous.
I like your sense of the ridiculous. Point well made!
"Land of the free" unless you want to show a pride in and a love for your home?
This makes me sick to my stomach.
Red, White and Blue are not "gang colors" nor are they used to disrespect anyone. They are; White- representing purity and innocence, Red- for valor and hardiness, Blue- for vigilance, perseverance, and justice. Or Red- the blood shed to gain and preserve our freedoms, White- our honor, Blue- our solidarity and unity as a people.
When we allow someone to tell us if and when we can show pride in our nation WE are disrespecting every person who ever fought for or loved this place we call home.
I am PROUD of those boys for leaving school! PROUD that they kept their "swagger!"
If one does not respect and take pride their own house, what happens? It begins to fall apart, little by little until nothing remains.
But if one takes pride in and repects the same house, what happens? It prospers and remains strong.
Is our homeland not the same?
I used to feel embarrassed when I stood and placed my hand over my heart at the passing of the American flag in a parade or at the beginning of a sporting event. The looks I got made feel like a weirdo but, I grew out of caving to peer pressure and now I stand with pride and love for my country. When will our goverment realize the same thing?
Thank you for writing this Kate. Thank you for being an American I CAN be proud of. =)
(I can't seem to log in. grr.. It's CHiCKEE. ♥)
Chickee, I am proud of those boys too. I've received a few e-mails about this blog, suggesting that the boys were intentionally flying American colors in the face of Cinco de Mayo, like members of opposing sports teams wearing the colors that represent their team. Is that a problem?
And why are people living in America when they don't seem to LIKE America? If it's impossible for some people to be proudly American while still honoring their Mexican heritage, it would make sense to me that they're living in the wrong country!
It's funny, since I was a little girl I've always felt very emotional whenever I've heard our National Anthem. More often than not, tears well up in my eyes when I put my hand over my heart or even see a flag flying. I am unashamedly an American patriot.
Love your position, Kate, you've nailed it.
I find the school administration's actions especially confusing because many Mexicans view Cinco de Mayo as an American borne holiday. Many even claim it was created by American beer companies. I've lived here, very close to the Mexican border my entire life, and let me tell you, the biggest celebrations for Cinco de Mayo are in the Mexican restaurants.
That was awesome. You made a great illustration and the point of America letting her arms down as to take a punch in the face is so right on the money. I will not apologize for being an American. Nice job! ;) R
Masochistic America, that's certainly how it seems. We're begging to be hit and it makes me sad.
I am an unapologetic patriot. People can take offense if they wish. Our lives speak the truth of us, we are Americans who have sacrificed to live and work overseas, with non-profit organizations as world citizens for the benefit of our world community. I'm not sure why folks seem to have decided that American patriotism is wrong. Part of the reason why I'm so proud to be American is because of the way Americans reach out to the world, sending more money and aid than any other nation in the world whenever there is a need. We love our neighbors and fellow world citizens. I'm all kinds of proud of that.
Hi Kate
Very we written as always. Sorry I'm too lazy to take the time to login to my blogspot in order to post this. Promise to get better about that;) Having just recently completed the semester in World Civilization, I can so appreciate the validity of your points here. And I am in total agreement, I hate it too, that America will be the cause of its own demise. Our big heart and failure to control immigration is beyond comprehensible. As we finished up the semester, the professor directed us to a Revolution website which gives statistics of what is to come in the next 40 to 50 years. It was staggering. Immigration was among the top concerns. I am dropping it here incase you'd like to take a look.
http://administration.sru.edu/president/planning/7revolutions.pdf
Smiles...The Peacegirl ;)
Hey, Peacegirl, I'm just glad to see you here. I don't care if you actually login!!
I am greatly interested in following your link and will do so posthaste! Thanks for leaving it, my friend. ♥
@Rebecca Hoffman
Hubby and I did an informal poll and asked a few dozen Mexican-Americans to tell us about Cinco de Mayo. Not one of the people we spoke to had a clue about the holiday's origins, but all were enthusiastic about music and beer and celebrating Mexico. It doesn't appear to be a very meaningful "holiday." Contrary to what many Americans and Mexicans believe, the fifth of May is NOT Mexico's independence day. It seems more or less to be a "shout out" day to Mexico. Cool. Why on earth are we treating it as if it's sacred?!!
I recently confessed to a friend that I occasionally drink a margarita on the fourth of July. Oddly enough, no American has ever taken offense or expressed that they felt I was taking anything away from the celebration of our Independence Day.
Our small community throws a huge fourth of July party every year and we've always taken part and enjoyed it, at least up until a few years ago when they began dropping American rock 'n roll classics and folk music for Mexican ballads and Mariachi music. It's never made the papers and we've never made a fuss about it. We just don't go anymore because we no longer enjoy it.
Hi Kate... *waves*
I have missed you. I am so glad I logged in to Facebook today. I have to figure out how to keep up with your blogging.
I totally agree with you. It is a simple concept to me, if you are in this country, and are not proud of this country, and you are originally from another country, why are you still here?
None of these people are going to accomplish really anything. I can't even figure what they think they are going to, other than a couple of options.
Like hoping to change America into a version of their original nationality? Or divide the states up and 50 countries get to adopt one to be their own colony in our land?
WTH? Not gonna happen. We are AMERICANS. The phrase we all use is (blank) American.... meaning like... Mexican American or Italian American or whatever. So in the use of this phrase we are all acknowledging that the object is American and the other word is an adjective of the noun. So they are all AMERICANS.
It is hard to win over most reasonable people with an argument based in denial of reality.
I stand with you completely with your despair and frustration with people thinking this way. I think there will be a backlash politically coming from the silent majority.
Politicians that placate for this apologize for America type of presentation of who we are, are going to have to deal with being voted out or put in a very vulnerable election. A wake up call, so to speak.
I think what has happened is there has been and under swell in America of this kind of acknowledgment and guilt over hate speak against our government. A kind of... I didn't have anything to do with it, and it disgusts me kind of judgement. Well, I figure, for the longest time, this was frowned upon in social circles and never got legs.
Then the hippie generation came along. While their idealism was refreshing and a good boost to America to take it out of the shadows of cynicism. The most extreme of these views are now being put under the microscope of politics and social debate.
Being scrutinized aspects of this view are going to be fail under the weight of scrutiny.
Or at least I damn well hope so.
Loved the blog Katy.... *smooches*
Wow. That's amazing. How did the principal not see this coming? He's basically attacked one of the, if not THE, most important symbols of America. Another symbol too: free speech.
I see from the news that it's like a shit storm has hit that school. You know what though?
I can't wait for May 5, 2011. Betcha the TV cameras will be at the school. If I were a reporter, it's where I'd want to be.
I had not heard of the boys who did that, but have not really been keeping up with the news lately. That is crazy and I would be interested to know what would be done if the Hispanics decided to do the same on 4th of July. I guess too, it would all have to do with the attitude of the boys. Were they going around harrassing the Hispanics (they probably did not mention if they were). It is early and I am not wording this well I know..lol. But, If they were doing it just to be cruel, I could see it being done as an ugly act. I guess it all depends on where there hearts were when they did it. I used to work for the CAMP program at the local college (College assistance migrant program). It is a federally funded grant program for children of migrant workers and it allows them to go to school for a year at no cost. The kids have to be legal, have SS#'s etc. Most of them are hispanc and islander kids. The sad thing I see is that many of these kids talk about being discriminated against, but yet they keep themselves in a pact away from the whites many times. I felt like they discriminated as much as they talked about being discriminated against. I see it so often. Does it irritate me that there is not a program out there for my daughter to go to school free "A white-kid program". Yes, it does. We have scholarships named for blacks, indians, hispanics, etc, but none named specifically for "whites" as it would be racist. That irritates me to no end. She has had to rely on any scholarships she can get, along with many loans.
Your blog is right-on Kate that we as a nation are making ourselves vulnerable. It saddens me very much to see where we are headed. And, apparently we have been doing this for a very long time since I see this kind of thing was even happening when your daughter was a little girl. Just insane!
Hugs to you and so happy to read your blogs. Love, Annette B.
Hi, Annette! :) Yes, we first experienced the phenomenon of the apologetic American about thirteen years ago, overseas, and it nearly cost our daughter her life. The non-profit was hedging itself against the presumption that people would *assume* that our intentions in taking the same safety measures as every other expatriate living there would be seen as arrogance, simply because of our nationality and despite the fact that we were working for a pittance for a non-profit and living very basically. In the end, the nationals saw our "apology" as weakness. That's not to say that ALL did, but we were told by the police officer that it is the general mindset of the population. I believe the lesson we learned is very applicable in our current political climate where we try to psychoanalyze why terrorists terrorize! :(
I've been running hard the last few days because we finally have some sunshine and there's lots to do outside, so I'll leave it at that. As always, I love seeing you here and always appreciate your input and insight. Love you, Annette!
I'd like to say I'd be very skeptical of the media, and I'd bet money there's more to this story. It was spoon-fed to the public in this way to appeal to a majority by way of insinuating that the rightness of their patriotism is being called into question. When I hear that the young men were decked out in flag gear on Cinco De Mayo, it sounds to me like they were trying to make a point--I wouldn't be surprised if they actually had been verbally disprespectful to other students, but see? The media isn't going to tell you that--not when it was likely an enraged parent calling it in.
No actually, I think your opinion represents a majority of Americans who stand right of center whereas my completely opposite point of view reflects the unpopular left minority. I won't get into that here--I'd probably be called "Un-American" which is laughable because part of the philosophy of a free country is everyone can hold their own beliefs.
Eccentricity, I'm always happy to see you here, my friend. Thank you for taking the time to read and comment. :)
I am always very skeptical of the media and am happy to hear that you are as well. It's why I make sure that I get my news from a variety of news sources and not just the mainstream media which is unashamedly liberally biased. That being said, I do think that the majority of Americans are conservative. I live in a liberal mecca so it's hard to remember sometimes that the attitude here is not representative of the entire nation. I can't tell you how many times I've been called a Christian, right-wing wacko. LOL It's really not that funny but what else can I do but laugh? I'm as anti-religion as a person can be and I'm a registered Independent, but, oh well. More often than not, people only see what they want to see.
Anyway, our experiences are obviously very different. You feel ostracized for being liberal and I feel grossly misjudged for being a political centrist. I tend to be more socially liberal and fiscally conservative. Regardless, this isn't about our personal politics. I'm writing about what I perceive to be a dangerous trend, and how this trend tragically impacted our family.
You said, "...the philosophy of a free country is everyone can hold their own beliefs."
ABSO-FLIPPIN-LUTELY! YES! And this is why I would never chastise you for sharing your point of view regardless of whether or not I agree with you, much less call you anti-American! Hopefully, you know me better than that. I vehemently defend your right to speak your mind and I just as vehemently defend the right of those boys to wear red, white, and blue on the fifth of May. I don't care if it was a fashion choice or a political statement. There's no evidence of bullying. I'm sure if it happened, the media will quickly uncover it as this is a big story and everyone but the family dogs are being interviewed. The story and video clip I linked to have sound bytes and quotes from both sides of the issue, which is something I was happy to see.
As always, it's great to see you and hear your point of view!
I smiled hugely when I saw that you had commented, Drew! It's great to see you!
You said, "Politicians that... apologize for America.. are going to have to deal with being voted out... A wake up call, so to speak."
I absolutely agree. I think that the current administration has overplayed their hand and is rapidly losing the support of the people. The political trend of incessantly apologizing for our patriotism, our world standing, et. al. will be brought to an end by the people in coming elections. If it's not, I fear for the country we may become.
As you know, my youngest child is mulatto. She gets pissed when people confuse her race with her nationality. She is not an African-American. She is 100% American. Her racial heritage is mixed. I'm glad she gets that and isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes even in the predominately and powerfully liberal area in which we live.
I hope you will visit more often, my friend. I miss seeing you! =D
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Freedom of speech has always been sacred in America and yet the recent political environment in our country has been one that seeks to silence and misrepresent the voice of conservatives. It has been beyond troubling. When the President of the United States sought to "banish" Fox News, saying it is not a legitimate news agency but rather a voice of the conservative party, the overwhelmingly liberal mainstream media: ABC, NBC, and CBS stepped up and protested, saying that Fox is, indeed, a legitimate news source and should not be "banished."
It's been interesting to see that ALL media outlets, even the mainstream media seem to be appalled by the Cinco de Mayo incident. It gives me renewed hope for our country, knowing that folks are up-in-arms about this violation of freedom of speech and expression.
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I smiled hugely when I saw that you had commented, Drew! It's great to see you!
You said, "Politicians that... apologize for America.. are going to have to deal with being voted out... A wake up call, so to speak."
I absolutely agree. I think that the current administration has overplayed their hand and is rapidly losing the support of the people. The political trend of incessantly apologizing for our patriotism, our world standing, et. al. will be brought to an end by the people in coming elections. If it's not, I fear for the country we may become.
As you know, my youngest child is mulatto. She gets pissed when people confuse her race with her nationality. She is not an African-American. She is 100% American. Her racial heritage is mixed. I'm glad she gets that and isn't afraid to stand up for what she believes even in the predominately and powerfully liberal area in which we live.
I hope you will visit more often, my friend. I miss seeing you! =D
((Hugs)) Kate, I do know you better than that. I didn't mean you specifically would call me un-American, but it has happened any number of times. Hehe I cannot be un-American 'cause I was born here and I'm glad to be a citizen of this free country. :-)
Something similar happened in Sweden - it was just a regular day, but students were told not to wear clothing with the Swedish flag on it, as it was seen as racist. I don't know if the students had shown racist tendencies or not. It seems weird you shouldn't be allowed to wear something that symbolizes your country, be it in Sweden or in America. On the other hand, for me it is weird to want to associate 100% to a country (even though I always joke about being Swedish and even use it for my brand, as it has certain associations attached).
Aren't we all people, not countries? And how involved are we in running the country, contributing to it? If we are involved, fair enough. But what if we were born somewhere else - who would we be then? I don't know, too nationalistic tendencies give me the shivers. Take away from any culture what's good for it and apply it, but don't think you are only that culture. You are, especially, not what happened in that country before you were born. If you thought you were your country's history it would be sad for the Germans. Not to mention the Aussies.
I am an immigrant, so I suppose I am "the problem" of America (as referred to by someone else). In Sweden there are "too many" immigrants and it's a "problem." I don't think the immigrants are a problem, I think the way the country that let them in deals with having immigrants is the problem. Isn't it everyone's right to go to the country they see most fit for them, if they have the ability to survive within that country and does not break any laws? Is it not our duty as human beings to welcome those that do their best to create a better life for themselves? If they don't, well then, kick them out.
I am not American, so I look upon America differently I suppose - it was my dream to do the American dream in the country that was once built by immigrants. America has painted a pretty picture that lures just about anyone who has seen a movie to come here - there is massive propaganda. Yet, I have also heard what Americans did in Vietnam. A seventeen year old European told his driving instructor here in LA that "The one thing Bush succeeded with was to unite the world against America." I don't know how many jokes about the Bush administration there were in Europe. But what is America? America is Bush, but America is also apple pies and maple syrup. I think America is good and bad. Seeing the welfare system in Sweden and the one here, I think some people are treated like shit over here. Seeing how people are punished for earning a lot of money in Sweden, I think some people are treated extremely well over here.
I don't think I really know what a nationality is. Common values? But are they really all that common? I guess we all have some stuff in common though, if we were raised in one place and that can be nice. You feel like you belong.
I think you should protect what's good in a country, but I also think you should shop around to see what the rest of the world has to offer. If one had a chance to live in every country of the world, I am sure one would come up with "the best of" and create a super nation ;)
I went off on one. And I have absolutely no conclusion. Maybe, celebrate the good, but also be aware of the not so good? Celebrate the good in your home country, but don't look down on someone because they come from somewhere that may not be all that nice. They are humans too. Made me think =)
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